My time is today. – George Gershwin
When I worked full time I was busy, really busy. Physically and mentally busy. Up at 5:30, journal in hand, I was working out the stress, you see. I’d shower, dress and do a mad dash with Filo, than out the door. I would leave the house each morning around 7:30 am and most days not return until close to 7:30 pm. I might have been at the office late or with a community group that I was volunteering with or meeting friends but lets just say those were full days. Than we would make dinner, catch up with each other, clean up the dishes and fall into bed. Sometimes, Tonya kept an even more grueling schedule that required a return to the office for a late night deadline or weeks away on production.
There was no time during the week for washing and drying laundry, even in the high speed, highly efficient appliances that sit conveniently in our kitchen. Laundry was a task that was sandwiched between the weekend errands. The coffee shop, the farmer’s and fish markets, the grocery or two groceries, the dry cleaners, the pet store, lunch out somewhere because we were starving and still had 5 places to go. You get the picture. Back than, I remember thinking about families who have had children and had to add soccer and ballet to the top of the list that we struggled to accomplish. Insane.
I would never have even discussed the concept of line drying laundry with Tonya in those days. “Are you crazy” I’d have said, “we never see each other and you want to spend the time we do have together doing WHAT?” Sure saving the planet is a noble thing, and I would have acknowledged that and asked who I could send a check to. But you understand that in those days it was OUR TIME that was precious. There was little time for recreation or relaxation together or alone.
But like millions of others Americans, I was part of a corporate “rightsizing” in Fall 2008. It was not an unwelcome change in my life, I had been ready and planning for something new, only I hadn’t foreseen the worst economic downturn since the “Great Depression” (1929). There were many conversations in our home about what we wanted and needed to do differently, now. Now, that there was more time, than money. Now, that we weren’t both over scheduled. Now, that I had this new found flexibility.
Our conversations turned to things important to us, individually and together, and that turned into lists, which is common practice in our house. If it makes the list it generally gets done. The environment, made my list, also high on Tonya’s list, and therefore its on “Our List”. Reducing our impact on the environment could have happened in many ways, but we had ALREADY done the obvious ones including recycle, use water filters and not plastic bottles, change the light bulbs to fluorescence, turned the thermostat up in summer (74) and down in winter (67), stopped watering the lawn, grow our own vegetables to eliminate excess transportation and changed to Energy Star rated appliances in previous years.
Project 52, which rendered our mechanical drier obsolete, was the next step and a new level of involvement for me. It helped me to understand that my previous thinking and actions did not fit this moment. That doing something in the present would be far better than the promise I would do something in the future. The realization, that my time is now, the fridge benefit of line-dried laundry.